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Nnadia thinks that one-night stand sex behavior without love is animal sex.
Nnadia will respect homosexuals but she would definitely choose a male as her
partner. Nnadia will watch pornographic movies because she has the ability to
make good judgments. She says she has an open mind, but what is meant by an
open mind? Would she behave openly? Everyone has a lot of different masks, but it's possible that you don't really understand yourself. The same goes for Nnadia. Is the Nnadia that everyone sees the real Nnadia? She is described as sacred and pure, but Nnadia herself says that's not really her. Then what is the true Nnadia like? How mush does everyone know about her love life? In fact, she has dated some people outside the entertainment circle, but it's pity that each relationship does not last long. What's the reason? "I think that I am a person with an open mind. I can accept many things - new ideas, new things. If you can accept and tolerate others, then that's already open-minded. But my behavior is not open," Nnadia says. The meaning of open-minded is quite abstract. What is open-minded? Different people will have different ways of seeing it. In Nnadia's heart, she has her own standards. As long as it does not cross the line, she can accept it. "Can you accept one night stands?" "I definitely cannot accept that because afterwards, you won't be together with that person. That is too open-minded and is beyond my standards," Nnadia opposed strongly. "How would see your friend if your friend is like that?" "I have to respect others. Everyone is an independent person. She has to be responsible to herself not me. If I know that my friend is like this, I would advise her. As for myself, I definitely wouldn't do this. Sex and love should be equal. There can't be sex without love, but love without sex, I think is okay. Sex without love - there isn't much difference from animals. The difference between humans and animals is that humans have emotions and love. Thoughts about emotions and love are at a higher level. This way of satisfying your sexual needs is animal behavior." This way of saying it may be a bit derogatory, but would you readers agree? "What do you think about homosexuals then?" "I respect and accept them because the society has changed. But if you ask me, I'm not. For me, females can only be my very very good friends, so good that others will even misunderstand our relationship. For my partner though, I would definitely choose a man." "Have you ever seen a third category movie [movies for people 18 and over, usually pornographies but occasionally a really violent and bloody film will also be included]?" "Yes, but you can't only see them in an erotic way. Violence, a lot of violence, violence with sexual tones, and not overly erotic can all be categorized as third category movies. I am an adult and will watch third category movies. This is to absorb different and diverse things. There are many different kinds of things and a lot of knowledge in this world for you to understand and know, but whether or not you would actually do it depends on your ability to judge them." "Then your ability to judge must be very good!" I said. Nnadia laughed, "I think it's pretty good, I guess. I have been studying for so many years and I haven't wasted my school tuition. I am not a smart student, but I won't waste the education that I have received." Nnadia said she isn't a deviant person, so she never has regrets. She said, "I will make mistakes, but it isn't open-minded kind of things [that was talked about above]." "Are the intimate pictures you took earlier with Sunny Chan Kum Hung considered to be open-minded?" "I can pass my own conscience! Most of the audiences' responses were positive. Maybe usually they aren't too clear about who I am and they seldom see me like this. I always say 'I am me.' Usually they just see my A side, but this time they saw my B side, C side and they find that I have become more open." Just from a small film clip or a picture, we can see another side of Nnadia. Maybe later on, we will be able to discover the third, fourth, fifth… sides! Does Nnadia want to be "Thousand Masks Person"? Many people want to see through Nnadia clearly and truly. But this seems to be rather difficult. What does she think about this? "If you want to get to know me more, then don't ask me because I would praise myself! Ha ha… if you want to understand me, then be my friend. You're welcome to. I am not choosy when making friends, no big deal!" Nnadia has opened her mouth to welcome everyone to be her friend, would you be the first to put your name down? "Do you clearly understand Nnadia Chan Chung Ling?" I asked her. "A little bit. I know about 80%. I really understand my own behaviors, but if you ask me to classify myself as a kind of person, I would put myself in many groups. Essentially, I am an extremely passionate and sensitive person." Nnadia says she has many different sides of her personality. Besides her passion, the one we usually see on screen is also one of true sides. The healthy, simple Chan Chung Ling isn't her image, it's the real Nnadia! "Is there anything that people have misunderstood about you?" I asked. She responded strongly, "There are so many misunderstandings. People will say that I am sacred. I really can't take that on. When I hear it, I start sweating. This term is not something I can live up to. Also a lot of people will describe me as pure. I will feel ashamed if I accept that. I have tried so many things. I've have lived so many years, I've tried and seen a lot. So how can I be called pure? A kid can be pure." "But everyone really describes you this way!" "So please don't! Next time I would rather they use healthy to describe me. I really am healthy. You can tell just by my 'big build'!" Healthy, simple Nnadia has always liked to think simply. Perhaps this is even easier to find a way out [Vonny: Out of what, I don't know. This sentence translated out kinda weird. I think it sounds better in Chinese]. We hardly ever hear news about Nnadia's love life. How is her love life - lonely or not? "My love life is pretty full. It's just that I lack the boyfriend that everyone loves to know about. You won't find out about this news from me. Truthfully, I've had mutual attractions with guys outside the entertainment circle and I've always had them. But they don't last long because the other person won't feel safe. In this entertainment circle, there are too many other attractive men and they won't trust me," Nnadia said honestly. "Do you think it's unfair?" I asked. "It's very unfair but I don't waste anyone's time. In love, I don't want to be as fussy. I want to let each other have more choices and I also think that there still many single men for me to choose from!" "Do you think it's difficult to find a real boyfriend?" "It's quite difficult! There is too much mistrust between the two of us. A lot of time must be spent on real love. Maybe I'll need to spend 24 hours to prove how important he is to me, how much I care for him. But now is not a good time for this. Besides the love between man and woman, there are a lot of other relationships that are also important. Anyway, to me, my job is very important. So I'm not in a hurry and also, I'm still young and still don't know how to take care of others." "Is your love life important to you?" I continue asking. "At this time, it's pretty important to me. If my ideal boyfriend appears, he will be very important. If he doesn't appear, I wouldn't hurry it because he would have a different career!" "How many times have you dated?" "Not really actual dating. Mutual attraction has happened so many times. But it doesn't last really long because I think too much about the positive and negative - it's pretty annoying! The best thing for a good relationship is not to think too much!" Nnadia likes the dependable, trustworthy kind of guy. Tall, short, fat, skinny, glasses or no glasses - this doesn't matter as long as they can hit it off! When will Nnadia be able to meet a man who not only has a mutual attraction with her, but also won't have to think too much and will be able to hit it off with her? (TV Week #1508 September 25, 1996) |